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Tuesday, April 20, 2010

::Couple More Than 5years::

What's your opinion about Couple without married for more than 5 years???

Hehe.. this not story of me but i think many couple got same problems.

Could you imagine,you coupled since 2ndary school and you got to same college and stay at same place(near) and now already 6/7 years. what do you think will happen? what do you feel if you one of them?

Maybe for people who never couple don't know anything. Believe me, that's a lots of problems.

Love and couple..

from my opinion and exp..:).

Please don't get involve in this kind love.. believe me, you need more normal life.

You couple when you prepare for marriage.
After a few month, you married.(how nice is it? you can do what you want)
after that, got baby and another baby.. is it nice..
life is fully happening.

but if you couple earlier..

you propose to her.
got her.
sms and chat.
date.(so bad coz nothing can do)
sms and chat again for 6/7 years..
what will you sms when it's already 6 years and stay at same place and see each other everyday? you knew everything.

This is about Malay who got coupled earlier and take care their couple and their relationship until marriage. I'm not talking about Malay out there who just like white people couple.I know many people out there couple but just like husband and wife. they go everywhere, kissing everywhere, sleep and stay together.

huh..my english so s*ck..

I'm not regretting my relationship coz mine is ok and want make it better.
what i'm regretting is why i'm easily propose to her last last years???
huhu.. but i believe, that time my emotional not stable.. I feel like "angau" and need someone by my side. Nothing could be changed after that even we tried to stop what we have started. so, i believe we really need each other. since that day, we still together and fight almost everyday. solve problems together. the key point here is we really love and need each other. so, nothing can stop us except Allah. even we fight for a days, but we still take care each other..

my points here:
-this is about our life..Think it seriously, if we cannot take care our relationship for 5 years how about for 70-20=50 years after marriage?
-ask your self, do you really love and need her/him???
-throw out about your relationship before, but think further. are this relationship burden you or not?
-IF this is a the end of the almost 10 years couple relationship better than the end of a year married relationship.

my conclusion,love is not just a simple thing.. It's more than that. feel it when its comes to you.
The best time to get couple is when you and your mate prepare to get married.
Everybody have their own bad habits, tolerate is the key.
marriage is about to complete each other.
Fight is a spice in the relationship. It's a test. If you can pass it, you relationship will better.

aaargh..tired..I don't know what i wrote already..bubye..

2 comments:

n.u.r.u.l f.a.r.h.a.n.a said...

you share something interesting here, i read this by 100% focus, you know, when we fight each other we actually try to rebuild tightly bonding in our relationship.. just make your self in rational to make a good decision...enjoy this time and wish you to have a really sweet moment with special 1.

Dan said...

huhu..someone follow me..:p
anyway, thank you..